People Pleasing and Perfectionism: Why High Achievers Feel Like They’re Never Enough

If you struggle with people pleasing and perfectionism, you may appear capable and put-together on the outside while feeling constant internal pressure.

You work hard. You care about doing things well. You’re dependable and supportive in your relationships. Others see you as thoughtful, organized, driven or having it all together.

Internally, things can feel very different.